Vanja Grbic from90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Daysis revealing all thelies that Božo Vrdoljak told herbefore she flew to Croatia to meet him in season 7. Vanja is a 41-year-old woman from Florida who is a skilled dancer, baker, make-up artist, and medical representative butfell for the unemployed Božo.Vanja and Božo had matched on a dating app while she was on a solo post-break-up trip.Božo parted ways with Vanjamidway becausehe wanted to get back together with his ex-girlfriend. Božo returned to reconcile with Vanja.

However, when Vanja went to see Božo in person, he dismissed their relationship, saying they were friends.

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A clip from the upcoming episode shared byETshows Vanja and Božo enjoying an outdoor lunch shows Vanja being “confused” about her purpose of coming to Split, if not for their relationship. Božo insisted he wanted Vanja to spend three weeks with him and have fun. He had not thought about their “future deeper stuff.” He was sorry that he had disappointed Vanja. “I came here for a relationship,” Vanja continued. Sheclaimed that Božo and her had said “I love you” to each other, with him asking her to come over to Croatia to meet him in person.

“I never said, ‘I love you,’ and stuff… I never said, ‘I love you.”

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Božo asks her to “check.” Vanja fishes out her phone to show Božo’s messages to her, saying,“Thanks my love” and “I love you.”Vanja’s replies are “We agree there. Hahahaha” and, “And I you.” Božo’s next message to Vanja is “You didn’t tell me today ‘I love you.’” Now caught red-handed, Božo says, “That is so me, sorry,” as he admits that what he wrote does mean that he loves her “obviously.” Vanja points out that Božo is laughing, but she took what he said at face value because, to her, it was a “serious thing.”

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Vanja Deserves Better Than Božo

Vanja confronting Božo about the claims he made before she went to meet him was a long time coming. Božo developed cold feet while Vanja was on her way to him. He ghosted her because he wasn’t sure if he wanted to even meet her. Božo hadstarted comparing himself to Vanja. He felt that he was not worthy of dating her because he had no job and lived with his aunt and mother while Vanja had four jobs and led a successful life in the U.S. The truth was that Božo wished to get back together with his ex-girlfriend.

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Vanja was not ready to be introduced as a “friend” by Božo to strangers in Split the day she arrived there. He suddenly wanted to take things slow after all the times he had told her that he loved her. Vanja saw a future with Božo, especially after her previous relationship was a disaster, and she’d caught her fiancé cheating, red-handed. Still,Vanja also needed to move on from Božoafter realizing he was not into her and would never be. Božo had lied to Vanja about being a footballer. He surely didn’t tell her about his living situation.

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Božo Is Gaslighting Vanja – He’s Wasting Her Time

It should have been Vanja who was rejecting him and not the other way around. Božo saw Vanja as a rebound while he devised ways of getting back with his ex. Rumor is thatBožo did reconcile with the ex-girlfriend after filming90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Božo led Vanja on and wasted her time by making her go across the world to meet him. Vanja was lied to and is being gaslighted by Božo in every scene they’re together in. She needs to know that they were never meant to be and fly back home.

90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Daysairs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

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A deeper look into the lives of couples established in 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days is a reality tv/documentary series that follows the potential spouse from a foreign country and their lead-up to their journey to America. The show documents the early days of the relationship across the ocean and the K-1 visa process required for the spouse to live in the new country. Couples battle with culture shock, language barriers, and the opinions of friends and families alike as they prepare themselves to take the ultimate leap.